Ava & Beatrice, Warrior Nun S2E8 // Sarah Ruhl, from “Eurydice” // “Wait for Me,” Hadestown
hope this clears it up!
Ruby and Yang both idealized and emulated Summer, but one prioritized the mythologized Huntress, and the other, the mother she knew. Only one of them received positive reinforcement for her priorities from their father and uncle (and this messed up both sisters).
as an entire queer trans allosexual i think it's weird when other allosexuals don't like the term allosexual for themselves. it just means not asexual. smacks of cis people who scream and howl and pee their pants about being called cis
"it lumps me in with my oppressors I don't like it" cis does that too. lumps your lgbt ass right in with cishet people. so like. why are you ok being called cis but not allo
allosexual isn't a slur it isn't perjorative it's just a word for not asexual. so that ace people don't have to feel othered as hell when talking about people outside their community. what the fuck do you want them to call you? "normal"? your mask is slipping
ok im done with discourse now i prommy. please treat me really niceys
There's a few people in the notes complaining that allo- is a stupid prefix because it means other. They think that the categories should just be "asexual" and "sexual."
But, like, that's what we did. When I was first realizing my sexuality and hanging out on thr AVEN forums a decade ago, that's what the categories were.
And you know what? It didn't work. Virgin and celibate allos didn't appreciate being called a sexual being. Even those who have sex often don't like just being called "sexual."
So we needed an alternative. One of the earliest definitions of asexual is "self-contained sexuality." It's been put aside in favor of the current definition of lacking sexual attraction, but it still resonates with a lot of people. And especially did back when we were trying to figure out a better term for "not asexual."
So allosexual was proposed. It was chosen because allosexual means that you are sexually attracted to other people. To people not yourself.
So yes, the etymology does make sense. You just didn't bother to look into it.
(I hope the people complaining are doing so in good faith, but I'm not willing to test that by replying to anyone directly. Now the information is out there if anyone wants to bother to look.)
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this is amazing and I'm glad I saw it
i do this when im writing fiction. Each fic has a cut document full of discarded dialogue, scene settings, metaphors etc that dont quite fit yet I might want to use down the line or other fics.
I learned to do this while working on my MA. I continued to use it when working on fanfic. It's what we call transferable skills, kids!
I feel like I am living in the twilight zone. Literally thousands of Palestinians are dead, hundreds still missing under the rubble, Palestinians being captured and tortured in the West Bank, Israel saying “oh we’re going to ramp up our bombing” and tonight being the worst night of bombing to date and all I hear is “both sides both sides both sides both sides-“ I feel like I’m going mad
i think that killing a dragon should have catastrophic nuclear-fallout level environmental consequences tbh. their blood should scorch and wither the earth with fire and poison, the toxic fumes released as they decay should choke the land and all nearby living creatures, and the entire landscape where they fell should be transformed into a blighted wasteland where bleached leviathan bones loom upwards out of the ground as a warning that can be seen from miles away, the boundary markers of an exclusion zone.
i also think that it would be wonderfully ironic if those who sought the fame and glory of the title of 'dragonslayer' only ended up with the bitter, enduring reminder of the devastation they're responsible for. this is not a place of honor. no highly esteemed deed is commemorated here.
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